{"id":819,"date":"2004-12-13T17:04:48","date_gmt":"2004-12-13T22:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com?p=819"},"modified":"2005-01-14T00:48:28","modified_gmt":"2005-01-14T05:48:28","slug":"a_good_ladaka_i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2004\/12\/13\/a_good_ladaka_i\/","title":{"rendered":"A good ladaka is hard to find"},"content":{"rendered":"

A daily part of too many of our late twenty-something, early thirty-something lives seems to revolve around the question of finding someone, simply to get our parents off our backs. 37 year old Priti Chowdhury, who is a pediatric anesthesiologist in Chicagoland, decided to finance and film a semi-documentary about her search for Mr. Right titled, Finding Preet<\/a><\/i>. From the Philadelphia Inquirer<\/a> [free registration required<\/i>]:<\/p>\n\n

\nAt first glance, the dilemma sounds familiar: A successful woman in her late 30s isn’t married, and her well-meaning but old-fashioned mother and father nag her to find a husband. \n
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\nBut two things set this story apart. \n
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\nThe victim in question, Priti Chowdhury, 37, a pediatric anesthesiologist named one of Chicago’s most eligible women, spent a quarter of a million dollars to make a movie about her misadventures in love and dating. (And instead of objecting, her proud South Jersey parents are in it.)\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

I can already imagine dozens of my female friends looking for advanced tickets to this movie. Hell, with that many girls going, I may as well go too \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n

\nChowdhury’s film offers madcap moments from her East meets West attempts to find a suitable boy. She signs up for a $10,000 dating service run by a woman named Lana Forsight, M.D. (Master of Dating), while her mother Kanti scouts out suitors on a Web site called IndianNuptuals.com (fictional).\n
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\nIn real life, Chowdhury resisted her parents’ attempts to set her up with an array of “nice Indian boys” and married a blond, blue-eyed, all-American boy instead. They divorced after six months.\n
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\n“I went by my own instincts and got divorced,” says the South Jersey-raised physician, who suddenly found herself in the position of having it all – except a man. “What do I trust now? Do I trust my own instincts or my parents?”\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

It seems that she has suffered her share of the usual suspects when it comes to dating:<\/p>\n\n

\n“Priti, this is Mom. We found very good boys on the Internet. One is a doctor, internal medicine!”\n
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\n“Another boy is from a very good family,” her father says.\n
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\n“He is not a doctor,” her mother interjects, “but both his parents are.”\n
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\nIn another scene, she sits at a computer screen encircled by her mother and aunts, who have zeroed in on an IndianNuptuals.com suitor pictured in traditional Indian clothes.\n
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\n“Look. Perfect choice. Manoj Chablani is 35 years old and he owns a computer business,” an aunt says.\n
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\n“Ooooh, C-o-m-p-u-t-e-r-s,” Chowdhury’s brother says in a thick mock-Indian accent.\n
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\n“Indian people in I.T.,” her mother begins.\n
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\n“Make a lot of money. I get it,” Priti completes her thought.\n<\/blockquote><\/p>\n\n

Classic. Stills from the movie can be viewed here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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