{"id":4457,"date":"2007-05-22T12:25:40","date_gmt":"2007-05-22T17:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com?p=4457"},"modified":"2007-05-22T10:16:50","modified_gmt":"2007-05-22T15:16:50","slug":"dont_want_no_da_1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/22\/dont_want_no_da_1\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Want No Dark, Dark Man&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avishkar and several other mutineers sent in a story tip <a href=\"http:\/\/www.reuters.com\/article\/email\/idUSSP13837320070520\">from Reuters<\/a> about a rather unusual wedding complication, so I realized I better post it ASAP, lest I see it in my inbox yet yanother time. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n<p>When it came to our color-obsessed culture, I thought it was the <em>girl\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s<\/em> complexion which mattered.  I guess <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bartleby.com\/59\/3\/turnaboutisf.html\">turnabout is<\/a> fair play.  Sort of.<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><strong>Turned down for marriage due to his dark complexion, an Indian man staged a hunger strike outside his would be bride&#8217;s house for two days before she finally relented, an official said Saturday<\/strong>.<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t he know <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sepiamutiny.com\/sepia\/archives\/002460.html\">they make fairness creams<\/a> for the new, metrosexual, dark brown man?<\/p>\n\n<blockquote>Saral Prasad, the 23-year-old groom in eastern Bihar state, said he would not budge from the girl&#8217;s village home after she refused to marry him earlier this week in an arranged marriage because he was too dark.<\/blockquote>\n\n<blockquote><strong>Rajani, 19, changed her mind after two days and the couple got married<\/strong>, Arun Kumar Mishra, a village council official said.<\/blockquote>\n\n<blockquote>&#8220;We were all taken by surprise but Rajani was finally moved by the gesture of the young man and married him,&#8221; Mishra said.<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Rajani was <u>not<\/u> quoted as saying, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I just want everyone to shut up and go away already, for <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Betrayal_%28Seinfeld_episode%29\">Pinter\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s sake<\/a>\u00e2\u20ac\u009d.<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><strong>Most Indian women, especially those in rural areas, often have no choice in matters of marriage, and are coerced into it by relatives and parents<\/strong>.<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Yes, of course..we Indian women have no choice with regards to anything and are coerced in to <em>everything<\/em> we do.  Just this past Saturday, at the meetup, I was coerced in to drinking my Madras coffee later than I wanted to, because our poor waiter was so overwhelmed with 26 people ordering at once, he forget that I asked for it.  Thrice.  Obviously his being an Indian male was why he oppressed me by not sating my caffeine fix. :p  And yes, yes&#8230;the meetup write-up&#8230;it is coming.<!--more--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Avishkar and several other mutineers sent in a story tip from Reuters about a rather unusual wedding complication, so I realized I better post it ASAP, lest I see it in my inbox yet yanother time. \ud83d\ude09 When it came &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/22\/dont_want_no_da_1\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1,10,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4457"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4457"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4457\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}