{"id":413,"date":"2004-09-21T05:22:40","date_gmt":"2004-09-21T10:22:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com?p=413"},"modified":"2005-09-06T09:58:58","modified_gmt":"2005-09-06T14:58:58","slug":"stockholm_syndr","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2004\/09\/21\/stockholm_syndr\/","title":{"rendered":"Stockholm syndrome or middle aged lust attack?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/2\/hi\/uk_news\/england\/3673730.stm\">British reporter Yvonne Ridley, having been held captive by the Taliban, converted to Islam after her release<\/a>. Her explanation (conveyed via the BBC) has some odd sexual undercurrents to it:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote> Working as a reporter for the Sunday Express in September 2001, Ridley was smuggled from Pakistan across the Afghan border&#8230;. her cover was blown when she fell off her donkey in front of a Taleban soldier near Jalalabad&#8230; Her first thought as the furious young man came running towards her?\n\n&#8220;<b>Wow &#8211; you&#8217;re gorgeous<\/b>,&#8221; she says.\n\n&#8220;He had those <b>amazing green eyes <\/b>that are peculiar to that region of Afghanistan and a beard with a life of its own.\n\n&#8220;But fear quickly took over. I did see him again on my way to Pakistan after my release and he waved at me from his car.&#8221; \n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><!--more-->She wasn&#8217;t mistreated, but she was held captive for 10 days, and not allowed to call her daughter on her 9th birthday. She rejects the Stockhold Syndrome story, saying:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote> &#8220;I was horrible to my captors. I spat at them and was rude and refused to eat. It wasn&#8217;t until I was freed that I became interested in Islam.&#8221;\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>She further explains her decision by saying that once she returned to the UK, she started reading the Koran to figure out what was up with the Taliban [Ed: shouldn&#8217;t she have done this before she went? As part of her backgrounding on the subject?] She seems to like the feeling of togetherness that comes from being a Muslim:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote>\n&#8220;I have joined what I consider to be the biggest and best family in the world. When we stick together we are absolutely invincible.&#8221;\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>But sex keeps cropping up in her story. For example:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote>Indeed, the Taleban deputy foreign minister was called in when Ridley refused to take her underwear down from the prison washing line, which was in view of soldier&#8217;s quarters.\n\n&#8220;He said, &#8216;Look, if they see those things they will have impure thoughts&#8217;.&#8221;\n\n&#8220;Afghanistan was about to be bombed by the richest country in the world and all they were concerned about was my big, flappy, black knickers.\n\n&#8220;I realised the US doesn&#8217;t have to bomb the Taleban &#8211; just fly in a regiment of women waving their underwear and they will all run off.&#8221; \n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n<blockquote> &#8220;How liberating is it to be judged for your mind and not the size of your bust or length of your legs.&#8221;\n\nA single mother who has been married three times, she says Islam has freed her from worry over her love life.\n\n&#8220;I no longer sit and wait by the phone for a man to ring and I haven&#8217;t been stood up for months.\n\n&#8220;I have no man stress. For the first time since my teens I don&#8217;t have that pressure to have a boyfriend or husband.&#8221; \n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Certainly, one can change religions for sincere reasons. But there&#8217;s something in this story which is &#8230; Freudian, and I don&#8217;t say that lightly. It sounds like something out of Ms. Cheney&#8217;s lesbian soft-porn western &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>British reporter Yvonne Ridley, having been held captive by the Taliban, converted to Islam after her release. Her explanation (conveyed via the BBC) has some odd sexual undercurrents to it: Working as a reporter for the Sunday Express in September &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2004\/09\/21\/stockholm_syndr\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/413"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=413"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/413\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}