{"id":3020,"date":"2006-02-16T15:39:46","date_gmt":"2006-02-16T20:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com?p=3020"},"modified":"2006-02-16T15:29:37","modified_gmt":"2006-02-16T20:29:37","slug":"waiter_theres_a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2006\/02\/16\/waiter_theres_a\/","title":{"rendered":"Waiter, there&#8217;s a fly &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Whether sanctimoniously single or smugly encoupled, I find that most people suffer from a post-Valentines hangover. I don&#8217;t mean a literal hangover, although copious quantities of champagne are commonly consumed, I mean a reaction to the intensely saccharine and unidimensional portrayal of love. As a homemade remedy, I offer the hair of the dog that bit you &#8211; a reminder that love takes many forms.<\/p>\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sepiamutiny.com\/sepia\/archives\/002338.html\">Saheli<\/a> tipped us off to <a href=\"http:\/\/totheteeth.blogspot.com\/2006\/02\/hi-my-name-is-sri-i-am-new-to-this.html\">this article<\/a> by an American desi who went back to Karnataka to work as a medical volunteer at the &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.tibet.net\/home\/eng\/settlements\/doegu\/\">largest Tibetan refugee colony in the world<\/a>,&#8221; an encampment of over 10,000 Tibetans:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote>I found out quickly that I had entered a place with entirely different notions about life purpose and productivity. Soon after I arrived I pointed out to a monk that a mosquito was sucking his blood. He nodded in acknowledgement and said something brief about the accumulation of merit and allowing another being to nourish itself off your own. (Luckily, we were in a region where the prevalence of malaria is low). \n<p><\/p>\n<p>The second day I was there, a monk took me to the local Indian restaurant. <font style=\"background-color: #ffd2bd\">A fly fell into my daal. The monk&#8217;s reaction took me by surprise<\/font>. I wrote this poem about it.<\/p>\n<p>There are those who<br \/>When a fly drops Plop! into yellow daal<br \/>it is not their bowl of food they worry about.<br \/>It is the fly and her wings<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sharrongold.com\/\"><img class=picture height=300 hspace=20 src=\"http:\/\/www.sepiamutiny.com\/sepia\/images\/monks465[1]_new.jpg\" width=225 align=right vspace=10 border=0><\/a><br \/>The ability of fire and spice<br \/>To sear wings<br \/>And with so much kindness<br \/>They place the fly in their palm<br \/>Unfold a white creased napkin<br \/>Clean the wings and the space<br \/>Between the wings<br \/>with water rinse away<br \/>Any hot yellowness<br \/>Place the fly gentle<br \/>On the edge of the table<br \/>Until<br \/>by the end<br \/>Of our meal<br \/>The fly has flown<br \/>made her way<br \/>Back into the world. [<a href=\"http:\/\/totheteeth.blogspot.com\/2006\/02\/hi-my-name-is-sri-i-am-new-to-this.html\">Link<\/a>]<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<!--more-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether sanctimoniously single or smugly encoupled, I find that most people suffer from a post-Valentines hangover. I don&#8217;t mean a literal hangover, although copious quantities of champagne are commonly consumed, I mean a reaction to the intensely saccharine and unidimensional &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/2006\/02\/16\/waiter_theres_a\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30,14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3020"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3020\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sepiamutiny.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}